International Women’s Day – 3 Things That A Woman Deserves

This is in respect to all the women of this world on “International day of women – 8th March” By hearing the woman, the whole universe can be imagined. From time immemorial, woman is always known for their divine qualities – Selflessness, Forgiveness and Love.

It is told that behind every successful man, there is a women. But in my case, it is the reverse.  My mom struggled through the difficult years post the death of my father, when I was just 13. She lived alone for three years, in her 60s, when I got  into post graduation in Ayurveda at a far away place.

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My mom – Smt. Padmakshi Hebbar

My sister is always supportive and caring. My wife left her high earning job just to marry me and to be with me. Even during her labour pains, she did not forget to ask whether I had taken my breakfast.

My daughters have come into my life to fill it with joy and happiness. Imagine, where I would have been, without these five.

Most of my blog’s admirers are women. Most of my teachers are women. The amount of influence they had in shaping up my mind and injecting kindness to my overall personality can not be described with words. If Holy Mother Shri Sharada Devi was not there, then there would have been no “Swamy Vivekananda“. She is the one to Give Sanyasatva to Swamy Vivekananda. She is the one who approved Swamiji’s plans to go USA. On this International Women’s Day, I urge all men to give the three things that a woman deserves  –

  1. Love
  2. Respect and
  3. Admiration.

Physiologically, women are more evolved than men. But it is true that physically they are a little weaker than men. But I bet mentally they are not. Imagine a big truck. It is very powerful, but it needs a tiny key to start it.

It is also true that women sometime need men’s support. But just because Stephen Hawking needs a chair’s support all through the day, the chair does not share the greatness of Stephen Hawking. :p

Many guys say that women are so unsteady and unpredictable. If men had such hormonal variations, such a level of stress to handle, and such a level of varied physiological differences to handle, men would either have gone nuts, or would have been extinct centuries ago.

On this International Women’s Day, All the women of this world, please take a bow. 🙂 I strongly oppose idiotic female foeticide that is rampant in India.

This is for such thinkers – “If you have a son, he may help you when you are dead (by performing the last rituals). But if you have a daughter, she will help you when you are alive.” I also strongly oppose any overpowering of women in whatsoever sense, by men and society.

Like I said, women only deserve love, respect and admiration. At the same time, I urge the women to keep your real nature of selflessness, love and forgiveness alive, to make this Earth, the best place to live. As you might well be knowing, the world is craving for these three Divine virtues. Cheers!

11 comments on “International Women’s Day – 3 Things That A Woman Deserves

  • sumathi

    08/03/2011 - 11:53 am

    Doctor
    Thank you for your thoughts & wishes on Women’s Day. I agree that women should keep the family at the top of her priorities, but men SHOULD learn to treat women with respect.

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  • Kunwar Singh

    08/03/2011 - 11:56 am

    Dear Dr Hebbar,

    Thank you very much for bringing such beautiful and heart touching thoughts for women on “International Women’s Day”. Your daughter is precious gift in your life from God for your love, care and respect to women.

    On this special day, I join hands with you to wish a Very Happy Women’s Day to all women from every walk of life.

    Best regards,
    Kunwar Singh

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  • Marianne

    08/03/2011 - 9:24 pm

    Thank you for the post, Dr. Hebbar. You are a great role model! The world needs more men like you.

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  • Natasha J Prakash

    09/03/2011 - 7:12 pm

    Hello Doctor!

    If men and women both have such kind thoughts towards each other, then definitely world would be a better place to live 🙂

    Thanks for this beautiful article.

    Regards,
    Natasha

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  • Asha shivaram

    08/03/2015 - 5:40 pm

    What a lovely article. It shows it came from the heart. God bless your mother . She is indeed a strong lady.

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    • Dr J V Hebbar MD(Ayu)

      08/03/2015 - 5:42 pm

      Thanks! Will convey your wishes to her 🙂

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  • Aparna

    08/03/2015 - 8:06 pm

    thank you sir for your respect and concern about women

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  • Linda

    08/03/2015 - 10:52 pm

    Dr. Hebbar,
    Thank you for the beautiful article regarding the celebration of women!
    Not only are you lucky to have your wonderful women in your life but they are also blessed to have such a feeling, kind and gentle man in their lives!
    Enjoy the day !!

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    • Dr J V Hebbar MD(Ayu)

      17/05/2015 - 12:28 pm

      Thank you Ms Linda 🙂
      You too!

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